STBXH moved out last Saturday, after ~6 months of counseling (3rd round in 15 years of marriage). No infidelity, nothing serious. No kids. Separated, irreconcilable differences, all those clichés, but I still love him as a person.
He gave me 60% of the bank, let me keep the house, and gives me $500 a month for expenses like medicine for the dogs (one of our dogs has epilepsy). We still correspond, though not as often. He still pays for my health insurance, car insurance, and cell phone insurance because they are hard to get rid of.
Will another shoe drop? Barring some temporary doubts about divorce
https://onlinedivorcer.com/blog/common-causes-of-divorce milestones, I feel like things are going as smoothly as anyone ever dreamed.